Last night, after all our guests had gone home, we were lucky that the cleaning was essentially limited to putting dishes in the dishwasher. We’ll be taking down the Christmas decorations tomorrow and Saturday, because I like them to linger a little bit.
There’s a fine line, though, with seasonal decor. Take it down too soon, and you regret it, feeling like you’ve sacrificed part of your celebration. Wait too long, though, and once-magical ornaments and fairy lights feel more like a pushy bellboy angling for a larger tip.
Still, we’ve taken one important step: for the first time since before Thanksgiving, we’ve removed the leaf from the kitchen table, shrinking it from a generous oval to an intimate round breakfast table once again.
Part of me misses the extra space – many mornings we all had our laptops strewn across the larger surface – but mostly I’m glad to have the space AROUND the table back, because it means the dogs aren’t quite so on top of each other as they move in and out of the back door.
It’s a first step toward reclamation, but an important one. The second step, begun this morning, was the cessation of the use of Christmas mugs. In truth, some are more ‘winter’ than truly Christmas, but it’s almost time to bring forth the Valentine’s Day mugs, and overlapping is tacky.
In other news: I’ve been really tired, and really writey, and I don’t mind the tiredness because it’s induced by the writeyness.
Happy 2014, indeed.
In life, timing is everything, and you’ve captured eloquently how hard it can be to balance between too soon and too late. I wish I had your sense of equilibrium.
I may borrow the “writey” term, if you’re OK with it. I’ve been kinda absent from the real world for a while for precisely that reason. Too many words to write, so everything else has taken something of a back seat. I’m good with it, of course, but the slowly rising tide of snarky comments in my inbox, Tweet street and Facebook timeline suggest others may not be. Oh well…
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